sandy_coyote 39 minutes ago

I talk about this topic with my (childless) wife quite a bit. Reasons we postulate:

The rent is too damn high

It takes longer into adulthood to achieve stability

Porn brain

Phone brain (24/7 infinite entertainment)

Dating apps are not delightful

The pandemic led some people to stay in for good

Loss of third places (rent too damn high again)

Tight job markets lead to reluctance to bring kids into the picture

Healthcare is more expensive every year

American individualism diminishes multi generational family support structures after a generation

A long tail of other causes: drugs, gun violence, obesity, losing one's religion, growing up with divorced parents

add-sub-mul-div 7 minutes ago

> This represents a rapid acceleration of the trend, with the surplus of childless women growing from 2.1 million in 2016 to 4.7 million in 2022, and now to 5.7 million in 2024.

Did anything happen in 2016 that young women might have interpreted as a signal that they were on their own and facing hostility?

throwmeaway222 2 hours ago

A lot of money was spent to make sure that happened

  • toomuchtodo 2 hours ago

    We should spend as much as possible to ensure that unwanted children are avoided whenever possible. The cost to not is simply too high.

  • dh2022 an hour ago

    What do you mean?

  • clipsy an hour ago

    Say what you actually mean: A lot of women spent money to have control over their own lives.